I just watched Namjoon's weverse live, someone asked him something and he answered, "Life is a soup, and I am a fork".
I have never heard of this before, so I googled it and this blog post popped up.
๐ When Life is like soup, be a spoon, not a fork!
It encouraged me a lot.
Life is like a bowl of soup.
Life is not easy, it never was and it never will be! But it is completely our choice how we make our life to be Believes.
If I say in simple terms, life is like a bowl of soup. It is completely upon us whether we want to be the spoon that can hold the soup easily and take it to the mouth (i.e. its destination) or we make it a fork which is useless and can never hold the soup in itself.
Not everyone is born with talent; itโs a truth that no one can deny. But it is also a truth that not all people born with talents are successful! Because it takes a lot more than just been born with talents. So donโt be stressed with the talent part, the most important key to success is persistence and hard work. Life is not perfect, nor it is easy but when you focus on what is good, you come to know that the key to happiness is all around you and when you put positivity into action and work hard, no one can stop you from fulfilling your dreams.
Three ways to become a spoon of your life, instead of a fork.
1. Be Yourself
Any success in life can never be achieved until you make peace-of-mind your priority. Take out time for yourself. Learn to change things by first accepting the way you are. Most of the people make the mistake of comparing themselves to others and then feeling inferior of oneself. Learn to disarm your internal critic by accepting who you are today. Move on in life with a positive eye towards the future.
A positive outlook is the most important ingredient in the recipe of life.
2. I can do this
When you believe that you can do something, you automatically become the spoon that can fill the soup in it but when you live in self-doubt and believe that the ball is not in your court than you ultimately become the fork that cannot fill the soup at all.
So keep this mantra in mind โI can do this!โ
3. Live life as it comes
No one has actually seen the future, so stressing too much about it will spoil your present. So live life as it comes and enjoys each and every moment of it.
No one wishes to be the fork but yet we see so many people who could do nothing in their life. The reason is either they didnโt try or they left mid-way.
So be determined to achieve your goal because it demands a lot of hard work to be the spoon.
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